‘Lay down your weapons, stop shooting’
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How is the U.S. the same as the USSR?
“In the U.S., you have the freedom to stand in front of the White House and shout, ‘Ronald Reagan is an idiot!’ In the Soviet Union, we have the freedom to stand in front of the Kremlin and shout, ‘Ronald Reagan is an idiot!’”
That’s my favorite Cold War joke. It replays itself in my brain in a Russian accent, spoken by a Ukrainian named Nick Plaksin.
This seems like the worst possible times for jokes. I shed tears as I watch a video of my minister friend Sasha Prokopchuk, standing in the ice-cold streets of Kyiv, pleading with Russian soldiers to lay down their guns and go home. I don’t know if I’ll see him again in this life.
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But as I look through old photos of my reporting trips to Ukraine, I’m reminded continually of how very, very funny the Ukrainian people are.
Even their president is a former comedian — one who has earned respect around the world for the grace he and his people have displayed under fire.
There’s a photo of me at a Baskin-Robbins in a Kyiv shopping mall in 2003. One of the church members with us, “little Dima,” was excited because they had pear-flavored ice cream.
“You have to try this,” he said. “It’s pear!” I did. Yes, it was pear.
I also think about Helen Girshman. She was our no-nonsense interpreter when Richard Baggett and I visited Ukraine in 2011 as part of Eastern European Mission’s 50th anniversary. We went all over the country — including Crimea and Donetsk, which a few years later were flying the Russian flag.
At one point we were in the Kyiv airport waiting for our flight to the western Ukrainian city of Ivano-Frankivsk. The terminal had wifi — a real novelty for a foreign airport in 2011 — so Richard and I were glued to our phones and computer screens, scrolling through email and social media.
“Excuse me!” Helen said, suddenly resembling every teacher I had in elementary school. “If you boys are through playing with your toys, our flight is boarding now.”
And then there’s Nick. When I met him he was the song leader for a young congregation in the eastern Ukrainian city of Donetsk, the Cup of Life Church of Christ. They loved to sing, especially “Our God is an Awesome God.”
Nick even did the cringe-worthy verses of the Rich Mullins classic that most of us skip. (“When he rolls up his sleeves he ain’t just puttin’ on the Ritz.” Shudder. And that, of course, reminds me of another joke that’s been going around for years about a certain Russian president riding on a popular snack cracker.)
“The Lord wasn’t jokin’ when he kicked ‘em out of denim!” Nick sang. At least that’s how it sounded to me. (Let me just stress here how much better his English was than my Russian, OK?)
I saw Nick again in 2011 in Donetsk. He was working for Eastern European Mission, managing the distribution of Bibles and faith-based literature to public schools. His wife, Natasha, had served as the ministry’s Ukrainian operations coordinator. A few months earlier she had suffered an aneurysm and died at age 37.
In the midst of grief, Nick kept serving the Lord.
And he kept me in stitches.
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He told jokes about the government — not the mean-spirited ones we tell in the U.S. nowadays. When Eastern Europeans who remember the Cold War criticize their governments, they do so in an almost celebratory way. A sister in Christ in Slovakia once told me how great it is to finally have the freedom to tell her leaders what she thinks of them.
As we rode through the streets of Donetsk, Nick pointed to a giant statue of a nobleman on a horse.
“I asked, ‘Who is this a statue of?’” Nick said. “They told me, ‘Don’t you recognize him?’” (It was the mayor or some rich bigwig in Donetsk. I forget. Someone well known.)
“Of course I recognize him!” Nick replied. “But who is riding him?”
I wonder what happened to that statue. Donetsk has been in the midst of turmoil since 2014, and now that conflict has spread across Ukraine.
Meanwhile, I’m told that Nick remarried and moved to Southeast Asia to teach scuba diving. Somehow, that just seems on-brand for him.
I know he’s grieving for his homeland just like so many of us who love our brothers and sisters in Ukraine. I pray for Sasha, for Dima and for all the Christians who are transporting relief supplies into harm’s way, who are ferrying women and children to the border, who are conducting Bible studies and baptizing in the war zone.
The other day I was rewatching “Band of Brothers,” the World War II drama. At the very end the real-life Maj. Dick Winters recalls being asked by his grandson, “Were you a hero in the war?”
“No,” Winters replies. “But I served in a company of heroes.”
ERIK TRYGGESTAD is president and CEO of The Christian Chronicle. Contact [email protected], and follow him on Twitter @eriktryggestad.
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